Sunday, July 22, 2012

What to do if Child Is Bored at School


What to do if Child Is Bored at School. "I'm tired of school", "do not want the school", "I'm lazy to school", that we might hear when a child does not want the school, was an occasional lazy boy's school is a natural thing, but parents should be wise in react to it. Often parents give the lure or reward if the child wanted to go to school or even punishing scolding. The way it is quite effective but not the child's awareness of the importance of attending school.

According to a psychologist Desi Cons of Growth., Lazy boy to the school is a natural thing, feeling lazy it can arise at any time. The most important thing for parents is what to do when the child begins to show signs of such school lazy not doing homework, lazy to get up early, feigning illness, and so forth. Avoid direct to scold him but try to find the cause.

If you already know the cause, we can easily deal with and awaken your child what is the importance of school. Example illustrates how the child that school is important to him later as adults. In addition we can illustrate that it's a nice school, for example by saying that the school can meet friends and play around, if a lot of friends can help each other

Occasionally we as parents can indulge your child if it is forced to do because it has not succeeded in the above manner. If we force the child might be feeling cranky or not in the mood and may even feel the school was not fun. But first need to be given directions and warnings, such as "what once was younger guns do not go to school, but why not adek have stories going back to school". It may provide an opportunity for us to find out the reason and opportunity for the child to express the cause.

What are the causes of the child to lazy or tired of school?

Too much additional tutoring

Additional tutoring is one way to make smart and can raise a child in school, but too many lessons can also make children become bored or lazy to go to school. Keep in mind each child is a unique and different, there are children who mengemari / like the variety of tutoring, but some are not.
If it should require a lot of extra tutoring, trying to mentor a child's learning at home, in an atmosphere of calm, when the child starts to look bored, rest for a while, so the child does not feel burdened. Keep in mind on how to communicate with children, do not give him a bad label.


The environment is not fun
Unpleasant environment for the child may cause the child to school are lazy or bored. As when at school he was often harassed or bullied by their friends, or even asked for money, or in ridicule, and so forth. So that the child becomes afraid.

Less Attention
Another cause is the lack of attention from parents, because of busy working parents that do not have the time or attention to guiding the child's education can lead to lazy to go to school.



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